Video call !

It’s strange nowadays video is just like a normal call, whenever you want so just click it.

When I met my husband, it was an arranged marriage, his parents came to my place and then told him about me. We arranged a first video call on Facebook, he was in Connecticut and I was in India so that was the only way. When call started I got network issues than a political rally, the sound, that call was about one hour but we were struggling with all this, instead of talking to each other, we were helping each other for these issues. After the call, we two realize that we are good to go, although we did not ask any specific questions, But yes we can have a life together. Funny and a bit strange.

I was in the IT industry and he was too, so when we share this with friends how we agreed without meeting each other they said you are doing a mistake. But not, it was the best decision of our life.

That was two month when we talk on chat, phone without physically meeting, and without a meeting, we fall in love, I want a love marriage but never thought about arranged love marriage.

When we first meet that was our engagement day, I was afraid what he will think like Am I fat, Am I dark, Am I beautiful…… A list of questions but when I see him nothing just we are there. So between engagement and marriage there is exactly 9 month, he back to Connecticut, I went to my place.

At that time WhatsApp was there but not with video facility, so only source was skype or Facebook. And other big issue timing Indian and USA timezone. Now a days wifi is bit good but around 8 years back I have cable wire so more problem. We have only weekends for video call, but most of weekends is like no electricity, no network and I just want to see him only for once no matter but want to see him, I went to internet cafes to get that skype but never work, I just cry and cry nothing work.

For us that 9 months is so difficult but that teaches us that we cannot live without each other, now it’s 10 years of marriage we fight but never go out of the house,because the feeling which we had on those 9 months, that was terrible feelings , some how its good for marriage.

I still imagine what it could be if we met offline, are we going to be the same or different ?

Fun in the life #6

Today I fast, no water, no food nothing all day, and this is for my husband’s good health. This is called Karva Chauth. I do only this one otherwise for an Indian wife we have a list 😛. This one is special, for me, I show my love to him, so all year I can annoy him 😛😜 and I have a good point whenever I loses my fight.

Me: what do you do for me, I fast for you all day without food and water?

My poor hubby: 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤐

If something happens with you, do share. Keep enjoying life😊😊

How I am going to be Happy…

Happy… what is happiness, you are here that does not mean you are not happy, you are here because you want something extra. So think about, what is that extra, it may be wealth, health or The perfect life partner, it can be anything. Here I am not promising for wealth, health especially not for The perfect one, then what ?

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That is really big question How I am going to Happy, first need to understand why we are not happy with current situation, I can understand Life is full of struggle, every one has its own issue, since childhood we have issues you can count them ,every age we have something which bother like a hell, on that certain point that was the biggest problem of life like when in school, teachers and homework, when in collage so degree with good marks then job then boss and so on …. what I count here that are really basic problems, you know, today I choose another topic but rather then I am writing on this because its funny story still I will share with you today my house’s main door jammed and I was stuck in side the house, I have no plan to go out still I take it as challenge to open that jammed door so I did everything to open it, after two or three hour I open it and then I feel relaxed, the funny part is that it was not jammed it was half locked because I forget keys there which I knew, So instead of wasting my time there I can use that time with my family or can watch my favorite show. what is the easy way to open that lock, call neighbor and they will open in minutes.

So the point is every day we face same kind of problems some small some big and some we make big, but in this world every problem has solution just need to think. only you can solve your problem other can give you courage, suggestion but final decision is yours which can be your solution. But with that problems we forget to enjoy the happy moment of life which makes us happy, that moments are very small but trust me if you start to enjoy them every day you have best moment in your life. it can be any thing when you come home from work and meet your family or you starting your day suddenly radio start your favorite song, you find a very beautiful face or handsome guy in train, Just look around and you will find it just look.

Now we have answer for happiness nothing need to do the only thing we can do is, in between the issues problems or big big problems Don’t forget to enjoy small cute funny things don’t give up with your smile and don’t wait for big happy thing because with happiness, I believe in form of EMI small but in continue form.

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Enjoy every minute of your life time will not back so Be happy and do share your comments.

The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me!

This is my first blog and I was little afraid to start my own blog. Finally I start it and here I am with you.

I named my blog as Fountain because I believe thoughts are just like fountain, every single second we have new thought which give a feeling and gone bushhhhh. that feeling is just like sprinkle from fountain.

You know every body has lots of thoughts even babies has that, every one has there own way to react on that, the best way to react on thought is just let them come and go, specially the negative one. Its a bit funny that being a human we focus on negative thought rather then the positive thoughts, So now question is how we neglect negative and focus on positive thought. Its really simple which work for me, when ever I have thought I just write it down any where phone, note book or you can pretend to be write even that work too, so if its negative thought once you write it down its gone from thought que I know It seems funny but try and I am sure it will work.

Best of luck and share with me its work for you or not.

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton